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Jan 2025
1h 13m

Did I “Win” The Breakup?

BETCHES MEDIA
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This week, J & J are fresh off a dinner party together, but Jared’s own awkward encounter at a bar afterwards has him regretting that nightcap martini. After some daydreaming about winter getaways, we dig into the e-mails, starting with a listener who put their friend onto the pod, watched them succeed at finding love, but keeps striking out on their own. Th ... Show More
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