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Aug 2025
34m 10s

The Tinder Swindler

Violet Benson
About this episode
No intro. No filter. Just me crashing out mid-coffee jitters, questioning a man’s job, his five passports, and whether I just met my future husband or the next Tinder Swindler. Welcome to Part 2. 
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