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Jul 2025
47m 18s

London vs. New York dating culture + dat...

Lyss Boss
About this episode

On today’s episode, I unpack my personal experience between dating in New York vs. London and how British men have been a whole new vibe for my healed, golden-era self. We talk intentional love, love bombing, faith, and what it really means to be seen for who you are versus what you do. I also reflect on the signs that someone isn’t right for you and how to trust your intuition the first time.

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