Benson Book Club is back, and Violet is done protecting your delusion. This week, she breaks down Why Men Don’t Love Women Like You — from mixed signals and “taking it slow” to why girlfriend benefits do not mean girlfriend status. If he’s acting serious but still leaving you confused, this episode is your wake-up call: stop auditioning for a role he never a ... Show More
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Let's Talk - May 13, 2026
Let’s talk about… the 21-year-old college boy who made $43,000 in 30 days after building an AI OnlyFans girl with Claude code that literally flirts, messages, and makes money for him while he sleeps. Papa finding himself a new emotional support human besides my mum, and his lifel ... Show More
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Let's Talk - May 12, 2026
Let’s talk about… the new season of Euphoria, taking a shot every time Sydney Sweeney’’s character forgets to wear a bra, why baths are superior to standing showers once you hit 30, and whatever other chaotic thoughts my ADHD brain came up with that are guaranteed to give you a g ... Show More
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Am I Settling or Just Being Realistic?
<p>In this solo episode, I get vulnerable about a big life change I’m going through and what it’s teaching me about growth, and timing. I break down two listener scenarios: one from someone in a long-term relationship wondering if they’re settling because the spark feels missing, ... Show More
47m 2s
Jul 2025
London vs. New York dating culture + dating intentionally and KNOWING WHAT YOU WANT.
On today’s episode, I unpack my personal experience between dating in New York vs. London and how British men have been a whole new vibe for my healed, golden-era self. We talk intentional love, love bombing, faith, and what it really means to be seen for who you are versus what ... Show More
47m 18s
Aug 2024
Vegas Cuckold Vow Renewal: Nudist Festivities, Erotic Group Play & Finding Your Tribe
<p>Join Venus, Doc Chocolate, Fun Charlie, and BlondeByTheBay and her cuckold husband as they take you on a wild ride through their unforgettable Las Vegas escapade, where love, cuckolding, and connection collided. <br/><br/>The crown jewel of the Las Vegas adventure was the extr ... Show More
51m 30s
Feb 2024
trust, trauma, & daddy issues: dating men for the plot
<p><strong>podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat:</strong> spiralling on dating men, trust, commitment issues, attachment styles, learned beliefs and biases, conflict, communication, relationship standards and red flags, love, desire, and childhood trauma (as usual, goes wit ... Show More
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