A lot of your frustration with women doesn’t come from saying the wrong thing. It comes from subtle neediness that kills attraction before anything can grow. In this episode, you’ll learn how neediness shows up in your texting, your energy, and your behavior, why women feel it instantly, and how to replace it with calm confidence so you come across stronger, ... Show More
Mar 2026
Hear the Exact Moment She Becomes Attracted (Real Infield Audio)
If you can start a conversation but you never know how to tell when she’s actually feeling it, you end up guessing, overthinking, and either forcing it or playing it too safe. You’ll learn the exact cues that show attraction is turning on and the simple moves that keep momentum g ... Show More
34 m
Mar 2026
The #1 Mental Habit That’s Crushing Your Results With Women
If you keep getting stuck with girls, it’s probably not your looks, height, or texting, it’s the way you’re burning your attention on comparison, regret, and “what if” future-thinking. You’ll learn how to catch that mental trap in real time and instantly snap back into execution ... Show More
29m 35s
Feb 2026
Men Over 30: If You’re Still Texting Like This… Stop
Men over 30, if you’re still sending long paragraphs, double-texting, trying to be “funny” nonstop, or replying instantly every time, you’re probably killing attraction without realizing it. You’ll learn exactly what to stop doing, what to do instead, and how to text like a calm, ... Show More
31m 26s
Jun 2025
How to Be Bold, Flirty—and Never, Ever ‘That Creepy Guy’: A Dating Guide for Modern Gentlemen
Dating and flirting can feel like a minefield. If you’re like many men in the #MeToo era, the fear of seeming creepy or weird can crush your confidence. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shows you how to be bold, fli ... Show More
48m 36s
May 2024
The Science of Flirting: 7 Ways to Flirt With Confidence
<p>When you're single, striking up conversations with people you find attractive can seem daunting. So, in today's podcast, Dr. Gary Lewandowski breaks down the <b>The Science of Flirting: 7 Ways to Flirt With Confidence</b></p><p>NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love St ... Show More
25m 46s
Nov 2024
The New Way to Confidently Approach and Connect with Women (Part 4 of 5)
Odds are, you see women you’d love to meet at bars, grocery stores or the gym, but you never approach them. Fear holds you back. You don’t know what to say, and you don’t want to seem creepy. It’s frustrating… but fixable! In this episode, host Connell Barrett—who has approached ... Show More
49m 46s
May 2025
27 Flirting Tips in 27 Minutes! Go from the Friend Zone to the First Kiss—FAST
Not knowing how to flirt with women can leave you awkwardly fumbling your words. Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett has fast, field-tested fixes! In just 27 minutes, he shares 27 practical flirting tips to help you confidently make sparks fly—on dates, during app ... Show More
31m 19s
Apr 2024
How to Get a Girlfriend in 2024 (My Step by Step Game Plan)
<p>While theory, game, and pickup tips are great topics to learn about, they will only get you so far. This causes many guys get stuck in this limbo where they endlessly educate themselves without putting everything into practice and getting that real-world experience.</p> <p>To ... Show More
22m 43s