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May 2025
16m 41s

Why You're Failing With Women: 3 Things ...

Connor Beaton
About this episode

Talking points: relationships, mindset

I see so many men struggle with this, without ever knowing why. Part of it's the realities of modern dating, but there's a few things you can do to rise above. Listen in.


(00:00:00) - Here’s the situation

(00:04:32) - Stop overfunding the account in an effort to get something

(00:06:51) - Be her best option, but don’t stuff it in her face

(00:10:55) - Re-prioritize your needs and expectations, and do it like this


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