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Apr 2024
27m 44s

How to Deal With a Woman Who Complains A...

Mark Sing
About this episode

In the early stages of talking to a woman, you’re probably trying to make a connection, get her into her emotions, and to open up with you.

While these are all good things, a common trap guys find themselves stuck in is becoming the person she uses to complain and download all her issues onto.

Not only is it miserable to hang out with someone who constantly complains, but if you become her emotional tampon she’s going to associate you with negative emotions and not be aroused when thinking of you. That means no sex!

It’s up to YOU to set the tone of your relationship, and you need to set it early. In today’s episode, Mark’s going to show you exactly how to do that.

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