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Apr 1
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When An Avoidant Realizes You’ve Given U...

LUCIA
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Have you finally stopped chasing an avoidant and now you're wondering what happens next?


In this episode, I break down the stages an avoidant goes through when they realize you've given up - from internal panic, to loss of control, to testing whether they still have access to you.


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