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Feb 9
The 5 Biggest Regrets of Narcissistic Abuse Survivors (And How to Heal)
"I wish I would have known." 🥀If you’re feeling the weight of the years you "lost" to a toxic relationship, you aren't alone. Regret is often the final trauma bond that keeps you tied to a narcissist long after the relationship is over.As a self-aware narcissist, I see these pat ... Show More
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