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Oct 5
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The Consequences of Leaving a Narcissist...

Kenny Weiss
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What really happens when you leave a narcissist? Whether you’re stepping away for a few days or ending the relationship for good, the consequences can be life-changing — and often overwhelming.In this video, I explain:* The difference between a narcissist and a falsely empowered codependent (many people confuse the two).* What you’ll experience when you leave temporarily vs permanently.* How narcissists use anger, abandonment wounds, and manipulation when you separate.* The dangers of parental alienation if children are involved.* Why trying to “fix” a narcissist always backfires.* How to protect yourself emotionally, financially, and legally when leaving.👉 If you’re unsure whether you’re with a narcissist or a falsely empowered codependent, watch my video: “Are They a Narcissist or Codependent?”👉 If you’re leaving a narcissist and have children, please learn about parental alienation. It could save your child years of pain.This video isn’t just about survival — it’s about clarity, boundaries, and protecting your healing journey.📌 Share your experience in the comments. You’re not alone.🕺🏼SCHEDULE A SESSION:https://calendly.com/kennyweiss/single-session-350📚 Purchase MY NEW BOOK: Your Journey To Being Yourself; https://amzn.to/3U1IGNZ📚 MY FIRST BOOK:'Your Journey To Success': https://amzn.to/3nfVphr🌍 My Website: https://www.kennyweiss.net🎓ONLINE MASTERCLASSES: https://thegreatnessu.com/courses🕺CONNECT WITH ME:Heal The Hurt Weekly Podcast 🎙https://spoti.fi/46FSmAjInstagram 📸 @kennyweiss.kwFacebook 👥 https://www.facebook.com/kennyweiss.netNewsletter 💌 https://geni.us/kennyweissnewsletter 0:00 – Introduction: The consequences of leaving a narcissist0:20 – Are they truly a narcissist or a falsely empowered codependent?1:20 – Key difference: Narcissist vs falsely empowered codependent3:59 – Short separation: What happens when you leave temporarily4:48 – Abandonment wounds & anger response6:50 – The “savior trap” and codependent cycle9:00 – Childhood wounds that keep you stuck12:07 – Gaslighting and manipulation tactics12:23 – Permanent separation: What really happens when you leave13:31 – Parental alienation explained16:04 – Protecting yourself financially and legally17:19 – Character assassination and smear campaigns17:47 – Final advice & next stepsHi, I'm Kenny Weiss 👋I teach the four pillars of the Authentic Self Cycle: Truth, Responsibility, Healing, and Forgiveness. I will do my best to provide you with the knowledge, skills, and tools to heal childhood trauma, childhood emotional neglect, codependency, narcissistic abuse, stress, shame, fear, anger, sadness, self-deception, self-sabotage, depression, divorce, relationship problems, parenting, parental alienation, estrangement, addiction, mental health, mindset, self-love, and the worst day cycle so you can reclaim your authentic self. leaving a narcissist, consequences of leaving a narcissist, breakup with narcissist, narcissist consequences, narcissist relationship, narcissist manipulation, narcissist vs codependent, falsely empowered codependent, parental alienation narcissist, narcissist recovery, narcissist abuse healing, narcissist separation#Narcissist #NarcissisticAbuse #LeavingANarcissist #HealingFromNarcissist #ToxicRelationships #EmotionalHealing #NarcissistRecovery #ParentalAlienation #Codependency #BreakFree #HealingJourney #RelationshipAdvice #StopTheCycle#kennyweiss #worstdaycycle #kennyweisslifecoach

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