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Jan 14
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Kids Who Act Like Nothing Happened After...

KIRK MARTIN
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You have a child who lashes out and screams disrespectful things at you over something seemingly insignificant…and then later acts LIKE NOTHING HAPPENED. When you try to talk to your kids about their behavior, they laugh or won’t even listen. This is a very powerful podcast with deep insights, scripts and practical action steps. Please share with others.  ** ... Show More
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