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Apr 2025
13m 59s

Don't Be Your Biggest Hater

ASHLEY LEGGS
About this episode
If you’re quick to hype up your friends but slow to give yourself that same love, this episode is for you. We’re talking about how the way you speak about yourself — both out loud and in your own head — shapes how you show up in the world. If you’ve been downplaying your progress, making jokes at your own expense, or being your own biggest critic, it’s time ... Show More
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