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Oct 25
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25 life lessons I learnt at 25 | self-ca...

Tam Kaur
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25 life lessons I learned at 25 🎂— this video is a reflection on everything the past year has taught me about growth, mindset, and becoming the woman I’ve always wanted to be. from overcoming past failures and trusting my intuition to protecting my energy, finding balance, and learning the power of therapy — these are the lessons that truly changed how I see myself and the world. turning 25 has been all about evolving, embracing discomfort, and letting go of what no longer serves me. whether you’re navigating your own season of change or simply looking for motivation to keep growing, I hope these lessons remind you that self-care, consistency, and courage will always take you further than fear ever could. 🤍


WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:
00:00 Introduction
01:37 Lesson 1: Forget the Past
03:11 Lesson 2: You Are What You Consume
04:22 Lesson 3: Protect Your Energy
05:20 Lesson 4: Trust Your Intuition
06:23 Lesson 5: Starting Therapy
08:25 Lesson 6: People Aren't Villains, They're Limited
09:53 Lesson 7: Lock Into Your Goals
11:30 Lesson 8: Get Comfortable Making Others Uncomfortable
12:51 Lesson 9: Find Joy in the Way You Do Things
14:46 Lesson 10: Life is Too Short Not to Get Closure
16:11 Lesson 11: Find Your Outdated Subconscious Scripts
17:27 Lesson 12: New Eras Come with Loneliness
19:18 Lesson 13: Regulate Before You Grind
20:48 Lesson 14: Stop Using Struggle as an Identity
22:09 Lesson 15: You Attract What You Believe You Are Worthy Of
23:32 Lesson 16: Healing Isn't About Not Being Triggered
24:23 Lesson 17: The Things You Want to Do Require Confidence
25:50 Lesson 18: Your Soulmate is Like Nothing You Ever Imagined
27:31 Lesson 19: Stop Feeling Bad
28:55 Lesson 20: Future Self Mentoring
30:02 Lesson 21: Falling Out of Frequency
31:06 Lesson 22: Rest and Balance for True Manifestation
32:38 Lesson 23: Discomfort is the Cost of an Interesting Life
33:33 Lesson 24: Ask More Questions
35:00 Lesson 25: Get Obsessed with Your Potential
36:22 Conclusion


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