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Oct 21
37m 42s

Let’s Talk Bullying With Dr. Sheryl Zieg...

DR. BECKY KENNEDY
About this episode

Few things feel more triggering than hearing that your kid is being teased or left out. If your first instinct is to “fix” the situation - text the teacher, call a parent, march up to school - you’re not alone. But as Dr. Becky and Dr. Sheryl Ziegler explain, our own wounds can make us miss what our kids need most. This episode unpacks why bullying feels so personal - and how to reset before you react.

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