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Oct 20
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Turning Setbacks into Comebacks with Tra...

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Episode 260 of the Fit Father Project Podcast. In this candid, practical conversation, Ben Sterling sits down with host Dr. Anthony Balduzzi to unpack a stacked season—family stress, celebrations, grief, and schedule chaos—and how he kept momentum without chasing perfection. You’ll hear the real story behind Ben’s “anchor habits” (hydration, morning light, walks, protein-first meals) and how he flexes the variables—training volume, carb intake, and fasting windows—when life gets loud. The result is a repeatable framework for staying consistent when motivation is thin.

We also go deep on training smarter over 40: when to deload (and what that actually looks like), how to scale carbs to match workout demand, and simple injury work-arounds that protect knees and shoulders while you keep making progress. Ben shares shoulder and spine “hygiene” you’ll actually do in 5–10 minutes a day—think hangs, traction, and elbows-in pressing tweaks—plus a short, plug-and-play routine for high-stress weeks.

Finally, with candy season and holidays looming, Dr. A and Ben lay out a guilt-free playbook: plan one discrete splurge, donate the leftovers, and pair big meals with glycogen-draining training or a short reset fast so you refill muscle, not waistline. If you’ve been juggling responsibilities, emotions, and aches—and still want forward motion—Episode 260 gives you the mindset, micro-habits, and on-the-ground tactics to turn any setback into your next comeback.

Key Takeaways

  • Keep 2–3 anchors non-negotiable (e.g., AM/PM walks, hydration, daylight).
  • Training is a stressor—on high-stress weeks, deload beats grinding harder.
  • Scale carbs to training demand; fasting is fine when appetite dips.
  • Celebrate on purpose, once, and move on—avoid “carryover calories.”
  • Don’t push through sharp pain; modify exercises and investigate imbalances.
  • Shoulder comfort loves elbows-in pressing and smart exercise selection.
  • Daily “spine hygiene” (hangs, gentle traction, rolling) pays off fast.
  • For candy season: plan a discrete splurge, donate the rest, and reset.
  • Empty the “carb buckets” (training + fasting) before big-carb events.
  • Meaning-making matters: channel grief/stress into purposeful action.

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