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Nov 10
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Plan It, Don’t Wing It: How FFP Member D...

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Episode 263 of the Fit Father Project Podcast is an uplifting conversation with member David Kilburn. During the chat, David explains how years of “I’ll do it myself” finally gave way to a structured container and real accountability. He talks about joining FFP Foundations, making friends in the chat, and how that daily check-in pressure helped him walk past office donuts and shut down late-night snacking. We get practical with the exact swaps that fit his busy Wednesdays, what daily weigh-ins taught him about carb choices, and how planning ahead for holidays and birthdays turns food from a trigger into a conscious choice.

We also cover how he navigated a sudden back issue—shifting to walking and core work without abandoning the plan—and the non-scale wins that keep him motivated (belt holes, looser 38s, more evening energy with the kids). David’s advice for new members is simple: focus on nutrition, show up in the chat, accept support, and keep going the day after an imperfect one. His next targets: rebuild to heavier lifts, drop under 200, and continue trading “reactive” for “proactive” in every area of life.

Key Takeaways

  • Accountability beats willpower
  • Daily chat check-ins turned temptations into conscious choices.
  • “Plan it, don’t wing it”
  • Late-night snacking fixes
  • Weigh daily, learn faster: the scale became feedback to calibrate carbs—not a judgment.
  • Train through setbacks
  • Holidays/birthdays without guilt: decide in advance, enjoy intentionally, return to baseline next meal.
  • Start simple: dial nutrition first, lean on the community, and focus on the next right action.

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