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Oct 13
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When Codependent Mothers Misread Their C...

Lisa A. Romano
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When Innocence Feels Like Rejection: How Codependent Mothers Misread Their Children

What happens when a child's innocent comment gets filtered through the lens of an unhealthy, codependent mom versus a healthy, emotionally attuned mom? The difference can shape not only the child's self-worth but also the generational cycle of codependency.

In this episode, Lisa A. Romano, Breakthrough Life Coach and bestselling author, unpacks how unhealed wounds distort a mother's perception of her child's needs and words. An emotionally unhealthy mother, trapped in her own unresolved pain, may perceive an innocent statement like "I wish I could play with you more" as a personal attack—triggering shame, defensiveness, or withdrawal. A healthy mother, however, sees the same comment for what it is: a child's bid for love and connection.

This powerful contrast reveals why addressing codependency is not just self-work—it's generational work. If left unchecked, codependency programs children to feel responsible for others' feelings, abandon their own needs, and repeat the same painful patterns in adulthood.

Lisa shows you how to break the cycle by teaching:

  • Why codependent programming distorts reality and causes misinterpretation of innocent words.

  • The neuroscience behind why trauma survivors often personalize others' emotions.

  • How healthy mothers validate their child's truth without collapsing into shame or defensiveness.

  • Why breaking free from codependency is the single most important gift you can pass to your children.

This episode is a must-listen if you:

  • Grew up with a parent who made you feel guilty for your feelings.

  • Struggle with people-pleasing or fearing rejection.

  • Want to stop codependency from spilling into your parenting or relationships.

  • Are ready to see how your healing ripples into future generations.

✨ Pro tip: Awareness is the first step. When you learn to recognize these patterns, you reclaim your ability to create healthy connections and stop carrying wounds that were never yours to bear.

Begin Your Healing Journey:

Lisa introduces her signature 12 Week Breakthrough Method—a trauma-informed, neuroscience-based coaching program designed for adult children of narcissistic, neglectful, or emotionally immature parents.

Inside the program, you'll discover:

  • Brain retraining techniques rooted in neuroscience.

  • Inner child healing and self-concept reorganization.

  • Journaling prompts and assessments to increase self-awareness.

  • Tools to stop subconscious self-abandonment and live authentically.

  • How to integrate shadow work and break toxic generational patterns.

Thousands have transformed their lives with this method—learning to step out of survival mode and into authentic, empowered living.

👉 Learn more: https://www.lisaaromano.com/12-wbcp

#CodependencyRecovery #ParentingPatterns #GenerationalHealing #TraumaInformedHealing #InnerChildHealing #EmotionalNeglect #ComplexTrauma #ConsciousParenting #SelfAbandonment

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