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Oct 2025
59m 46s

Trauma or Personality, When to Walk Away...

RICK HANSON, PH.D., FORREST HANSON
About this episode
Dr. Rick and Forrest open up the mailbag to answer listener questions about trauma and its impact on personality, boundaries, anger, and burnout. They discuss how to distinguish the authentic self from the patterns we needed to learn to survive, how to balance duty to self with duty to others, and how to work with explosive anger by first joining with it. Fi ... Show More
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