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Jul 2022
1h 3m

How To Allow Yourself To Really Feel You...

BETCHES MEDIA
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Jordana and Naomi start the week with some tips for allowing yourself to feel your feelings and stop avoiding them with distractions. Naomi offers a great explanation of why it’s okay to lean into the physical feelings of emotion (painful as they may be). Then a listener writes in to ask how to cope with a recent failed relationship and find a sense of hope ... Show More
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