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Oct 13
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143: Five Things I Learned in My 30s tha...

Nick Bare
About this episode

Over the last decade, I’ve learned lessons that changed the way I lead, train, and live. These five takeaways from my thirties are built on experience—earned through challenges, failures, and growth. If you’re chasing clarity in your own journey, these insights will help you move with purpose and go all in.


CHAPTERS:

00:00 Introduction

02:39 John C. Maxwell's Influence

07:59 Influence vs. Popularity

19:16 Building Trust and Competence

25:20 The Ranger School Experience

35:09 The Importance of Reward and Passion

35:54 Protecting Your Priorities

40:00 Building Your Inner Circle

45:53 Balancing Sacrifice and Success

59:37 Impress Less, Impact More

01:06:41 Final Thoughts on Leadership


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