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Sep 2025
38m 38s

How to Attract a Healthy Partner

Jillian Turecki | QCODE
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Do you ever wonder why you keep attracting the wrong person? In this episode, Jillian unpacks the unconscious blocks that prevent us from finding healthy love. She shares why distrust and resentment poison connection, how fear of not being “enough” sabotages relationships, and why wasting time with the wrong partner only delays the right one. Join my commun ... Show More
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