Why do so many people ignore what they already know deep down in their relationships? In this episode, Jillian explores the difference between anxiety and intuition, the red flags people rationalize away, and the green flags that actually matter when building healthy love. She breaks down the questions you need to ask before ending a relationship, why feelin ... Show More
May 25
The 5 Red and Green Flags You Can’t Ignore
Everyone talks about red flags. But what about the green flags that actually matter? In this episode, Jillian breaks down the difference between anxiety, chemistry, emotional safety, and real compatibility—and why so many people stay stuck chasing people who are unsure about them ... Show More
44m 50s
May 11
Why Dating Feels Emotionally Exhausting
If you've ever felt completely fine when you're single—confident, healed, grounded—and then watched all of that fall apart the moment you actually liked someone, this episode is for you. Relationship anxiety isn't just anxious attachment. It's the fear of not being good enough, t ... Show More
32m 53s
Mar 2023
How To Start A Podcast From Scratch with Veronica Droulia
<p>In this Martinis and Bikinis x 80/20 crossover episode, Lily sits down with Veronica Drouila to chat about all things podcasting, content creation, life in DC, and more! The pair also gives a sneak peek into the prep for their upcoming LIVE PODCAST event titled <a href="https: ... Show More
51m 26s
Oct 2025
205. Truths About Love We Don't Like Hearing (But Need To) w/ Jillian Turecki
In this episode, I sit down with author and relationship coach Jillian Turecki to talk about the hard truths of love, why it really begins with you, and what changes when you stop outsourcing certainty and start meeting your own needs. We get into the “six human needs” as a simpl ... Show More
45m 54s
Aug 2018
Ep. 01 - Jenna Zoe, Human Design
<p>Lacy kicks off the Expanded Podcast talking to her personal Human Design Reader, Jenna Zoe. Jenna’s work is centered around guiding her clients to rediscover who they came to be by living in their design and finding their purpose here on Earth. In this episode, she talks about ... Show More
1h 17m
Apr 2023
The Realities of Being a Twenty-Something with Lexie Rakow
<p>In this candid episode, Lily is joined by her little sister, Lexie, to play a few rounds of We're Not Really Strangers. The girls discuss allllll kinds of juicy topics including going through an ex's phone, missing someone who doesn't miss you back, the desire to fix insecurit ... Show More
45m 6s
<p>It's almost fall! In this episode, Lily lays out her priority list for the coming months. </p>
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