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Sep 17
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415: How to Break Through The illusion o...

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"You are not here to prove that you are enough. You are here to remember who you are."

In this powerful episode of Soul Talk, I explore the deep roots of scarcity and how it is more than just a mindset—it’s a spiritual trance passed down through generations. I explain how scarcity shows up in our lives as survival, guilt, hustle, and unworthiness, keeping us trapped in cycles of lack and struggle.

You’re going to learn how to break free from these “scarcity spells” by remembering your true nature as infinite, abundant, and already enough. Through practices of gratitude, generosity, and presencing, you’ll master how to shift from living in fear of “not enough” to embodying the frequency of abundance.

This episode is both a reminder and an invitation: you are not here to beg for joy or hustle for love—you are here to remember that you are abundance itself.

 Timestamps

  • (01:10) – Scarcity as a Spiritual Trance
    Why scarcity isn’t just a mindset—it’s a spiritual hypnosis passed down through generations.
  • (05:16) – The Programming of Scarcity
    Childhood messages like “money doesn’t grow on trees” and “be realistic” and how they shape our beliefs.
  • (07:27) – Scarcity Beyond Money
    How scarcity is really about separation from source, not just lack of finances.
  • (09:40) – Scarcity in the Nervous System
    Why you can have money, love, or success and still feel broke or unworthy.
  • (11:27) – The Four Scarcity Spells
    Survival, guilt, hustle, and unworthiness—and how they keep us trapped.
  • (15:40) – True Abundance
    Abundance as collapsing the illusion of separation between you and the divine.
  • (17:04) – Daily Practice for Abundance
    Questions to ask yourself each morning and how to embody gratitude.
  • (19:07) – The Power of Generosity
    How giving expands abundance instead of depleting it.
  • (20:29) – The Three Levels of Prayer
    From pleading, to praise, to presencing—and how each shifts your relationship to abundance.
  • (23:52) – Remembering Who You Are
    Why you are not here to hustle for love or beg for joy—you are abundance itself.

Some Questions I Ask:

  • What limiting beliefs about money, love, or time did I inherit from my family?
  • How have I confused gratitude with tolerating crumbs?
  • Do I secretly believe that if I have more, others will have less?
  • Am I hustling to prove my worth, or am I remembering that I am already enough?
  • What feelings or patterns in my nervous system keep me tied to scarcity?

In This Episode, You Will Learn:

  • Why scarcity is more than a mindset—it’s a spiritual trance and generational conditioning.
  • The four scarcity spells that keep people trapped: survival, guilt, hustle, and unworthiness.
  • How true abundance comes from reconnecting with your infinite nature, not external possessions.
  • Practical tools to shift out of scarcity, including gratitude practices, generosity, and presencing prayer.

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