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Feb 2025
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The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual...

Lewis Howes
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In a paradigm-shifting conversation about love and relationships, spiritual wisdom teacher David Ghiyam reveals why our most painful relationships are actually divine assignments for our soul's growth. This episode offers groundbreaking wisdom for anyone who has ever felt stuck in toxic relationship patterns or questioned why they keep attracting the wrong partners, as David provides practical tools to shift from victim consciousness to spiritual mastery in love. Through vulnerable personal stories, including his own journey of maintaining a beautiful friendship with his ex-wife while co-parenting four children, David illuminates how our relationship patterns are not random but carefully orchestrated opportunities for spiritual evolution. He shares the transformational insight that instead of seeking "the one," we must focus on becoming "the one" by expanding our spiritual vessel to receive love. 

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In this episode you will learn:

  • Why focusing on building your "spiritual vessel" is more important than searching for the perfect partner
  • How our souls pre-program specific relationship challenges to help us grow and evolve
  • The counterintuitive reason why over-giving in early relationships often leads to their demise
  • Why blessing your ex-partners instead of labeling them "toxic" is crucial for manifesting healthy love
  • The profound connection between your belief in what you deserve and your capacity to receive love

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