You’ve read the books, saved the Instagram carousels, diagnosed your attachment style (hi anxious girlies 👋), and can spot a spiral from a mile away… but you’re still spiraling?! 🌀
In this episode, we break down:
💭 Why high self-awareness doesn't stop the overthinking
🧠 The "anxious observer" trap (aka when you know you’re spiraling and still can’t stop) ... Show More
Oct 13
When You Feel Like You’re “Too Much” in a Relationship
Have you ever worried that you're just... TOO MUCH in your relationship? 😭 Too needy. Too sensitive. Too emotional. Too many questions. Too much reassurance. Meanwhile, you're a fully functioning, independent, successful woman in literally every other area of your life. MAKE IT ... Show More
16m 3s
Sep 29
The Easiest Way to Stop Needing Constant Reassurance
You know when your partner has told you they love you, shown you they love you, and your anxious attachment is STILL like... okay but can you tell me again? 😭 In this episode, we’re talking about why you crave constant reassurance in your relationship and why trying to force you ... Show More
17m 27s
May 2025
137: I Used to Be A Hot Mess... And What I Did To Change It
What if the reason you’re spiraling after a text, chasing validation, or attaching to people who barely know you… isn’t about them at all? In this vulnerable solo-meets-guest episode, Sabrina opens up about how her anxious attachment shaped over a decade of dating—texting obsessi ... Show More
51m 45s
Feb 2025
417: The Real Reason You’re Overthinking Everything (And How to Fix It)
Plus, why overthinking is making you a prisoner of your past ||Ooooh the curse of OVERTHINKING… we all do it, but do you know why? 👀 In this episode, Monica peels back the layers of what’s really happening when you can’t seem to stop spiraling. From surprising triggers to hidden ... Show More
40m 19s
Aug 2021
#455: Still Caring Too Much, Even Though You “Know Better?”
You "know better" to care so much what other people think about you, but you're still feeling stuck in the people-pleasing, perfectionistic, desire-to-be-liked thought loop? This podcast episode is for you. ________________ Take what you learn on the podcast deeper, and really ex ... Show More
39m 47s
Sep 2021
202. Self-Worth, Dating, Rejection & Love: A Conversation with Clara Artschwager
Do you analyze text messages from romantic interests like you’re peering into into a crystal ball, constantly scanning for evidence of their interest (or lack thereof)? Do you feel like your future happiness is completely at the mercy of the dating apps? In this episode, consciou ... Show More
1 h
Nov 2024
The One-Person Show Nobody Asked For
How often do you find yourself replaying a conversation, second-guessing every little thing you said? In this episode, we’re diving into that spiral of overthinking, breaking down why we get caught up in it and how to finally stop. We’ll cover ways to catch ourselves in the act, ... Show More
22m 11s
<p>You’ve read the books. You’ve done the inner work.</p><p>But if you still feel anxious when they don’t text back… if you overthink every interaction… if you can’t fully detach even though you “know better” — this episode is for you.</p><p><br></p><p>In this video, I’m breaking ... Show More
