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Sep 16
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You're self aware but still in the overt...

bethathealinggirl
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You’ve read the books, saved the Instagram carousels, diagnosed your attachment style (hi anxious girlies 👋), and can spot a spiral from a mile away… but you’re still spiraling?! 🌀 In this episode, we break down: 💭 Why high self-awareness doesn't stop the overthinking 🧠 The "anxious observer" trap (aka when you know you’re spiraling and still can’t stop) ... Show More
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