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Sep 16
20m 20s

The And Theory: Breaking Free From Upper...

Marley Rose Harris
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The luxury mentorship for the woman ready to rise into wealth, power, and effortless expansion. This is where subconscious reprogramming meets strategy and your next level becomes your new normal. If you feel the pull to become more, this is your space.


In this short but potent episode of The Money Mindset & Manifestation Podcast, I introduce you to a concept that came through to me during a run—the And Theory. This simple yet powerful shift can help you break free from upper limits, stop self-sabotaging when life is good, and create deeper connections without falling into victim energy. Instead of saying “but” and unconsciously dimming your light, you’ll learn how to use “and” to expand into safety, abundance, and empowered connection.


Topics Covered:

    • Why your unconscious mind is always scanning for danger

    • How upper limits and comfort zones sabotage growth

    • The hidden habit of using “but” to seem relatable

    • Replacing “but” with “and” to expand abundance

    • Victim energy vs. empowerment energy in relationships and business

    • Daily practices to reprogram your nervous system for safety and growth


Action-Oriented Episode Focus:

    • Notice where you say “but” when things are going well.

    • Replace “but” with “and” to create space for expansion.

    • Practice nervous system regulation (like breathwork) to feel safe in abundance.

    • Reflect on whether you’re seeking connection through victim energy or empowerment.


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