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Aug 2024
9m 46s

How To Calm A Tantrum Without Saying A W...

Dr. Cathryn
About this episode
Welcome! I’m Dr. Cathryn, pediatrician with 35 years of experience and mom of 4. This week, we dive into the art of calming a tantrum without saying a word. Timing and approach are key—intervene too soon or in the wrong way, and you might unintentionally escalate the situation. By staying calm, you share that calm with your child, guiding them through their ... Show More
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