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Aug 25
36m 12s

The Flight Trauma Response, Fear, and Yo...

Jennifer Wallace & Elisabeth Kristof
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The flight response is often misunderstood as weakness or avoidance, but it's actually a deeply wired survival strategy shaped by fear and trauma. In this episode of Trauma Rewired, we uncover how the nervous system uses constant motion, through overwork, hustle, and productivity, to escape from internal sensations and emotions that once felt unsafe.

You'll learn how fear disguises itself as discipline, why rest feels threatening to high performers, and how chronic busyness creates a false sense of safety while eroding health and connection. From neuroscience to personal stories, Jennifer Wallace and Elisabeth Kristof explain the mechanisms of the flight response, its roots in trauma, and the protective role it sometimes plays.

Most importantly, we share practical somatic tools to slow down, regulate the nervous system, and reclaim fear as a signal for presence and alignment, not something to outrun.

00:00 – Running from internal sensations, not others
00:24 – Busyness and productivity as avoidance
00:43 – Slowing down in somatic therapy
01:33 – Hustler identity and chronic overdoing
02:25 – Flight tied to fear of stillness
03:11 – Welcome to Trauma Rewired
04:15 – Flight patterns: urgency, overscheduling, avoidance
05:13 – When flight signals misalignment
07:46 – Flight as protection against overstimulation
09:31 – Brain-body mechanics of flight
11:50 – Fear bypassed as weakness
13:10 – Trauma and structural reinforcement of flight
15:36 – Movement replacing emotion
17:35 – Somatic healing requires slowing down
18:32 – Signs of inward-directed flight
19:55 – Disconnection from body cues (hunger, fatigue)
23:39 – Somatic regulation steps and tools
25:53 – Fear as primal protective signal
28:12 – Regulation tools to create space between sensation and action
31:24 – Stillness and vulnerability as safety
32:16 – Somatic release of fear: frozen shoulder story
33:28 – Reclaiming emotions as growth tools
34:36 – Fear, intuition, and aligned action

Topics Discussed in This Episode:

  • The difference between healthy fear and chronic flight
  • How trauma conditions the nervous system to stay in motion
  • The neuroscience of the flight response: amygdala, hypothalamus, PAG, prefrontal cortex
  • Why productivity and hustle are often survival strategies
  • Signs of chronic flight in relationships and work
  • The hidden cost of avoiding emotions through busyness
  • Somatic tools for slowing down and processing fear
  • Rewiring chronic flight through neuroplasticity and body-based healing
  • The role of cultural and systemic trauma in reinforcing flight
  • How to reclaim fear as a clarifying signal for safety and presence

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