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Aug 5
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Lessons I’ve Learned in My 20s and 30s: ...

Siffat Haider
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On today’s solo episode I am back to share the biggest lessons I have learned in my 20s and 30s — from navigating career pivots and releasing the pressure of rigid timelines to building meaningful relationships and finding confidence in personal finances. Whether you're in the thick of figuring things out or reflecting on your own journey, this episode is a candid reminder that growth isn’t always linear — and you don’t have to have it all figured out to move forward with purpose. Enjoy!


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