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Aug 15
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They Left? This Reaction Can Shift Every...

MATTHEW HUSSEY
About this episode

When you’re in love and someone decides to end the relationship, it’s natural for your brain to go into panic mode.

Why are they doing this? How can I be the person they want me to be? What can I say to get them back?

If you allow these swirling thoughts to take over, you’ll only end up pushing them further and further away.

Now, I’m not going to tell you whether or not you should give it another try with your ex. There are many factors to consider, which we can talk about another time.

But what I do know is that if you want a real chance of getting this person back in your life, you must understand this important truth before you take the next step...


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