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Aug 13
53m 20s

Adult Sleep Overs

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About this episode

Sometime Brunch with your friends just ISN'T enough time.

 

This week on Good Moms, chat about the magic of adult sleepovers and why untimed, leisurely hangouts with friends are just as essential in adulthood as they were when we were kids.

 

What you can expect to hear:

(02:13) Empowering your kids set up their own playdates: “Go get her number on a piece of paper.”

(06:24) Camping stories & adult friend sleepovers

(14:35) Erica’s short-term roommate experiment

(24:00) High school reunions

(30:25) PSA for white women dating Black men

(48:00) Whorie

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