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Jan 2025
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FLASHBACK FRIDAY: Breakup Or Make Up? (...

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About this episode

As we begin our 5th season of Reasonably Shady, we're starting up FLASHBACK FRIDAY to revisit past episodes of the show!

Originally published May 31, 2021:

Gizelle and Robyn break down the twists and turns in their personal relationships and discuss the decision to 'make up' or 'move on' when things get tough.

The ladies also review some shocking stats about dating and talk about ways to maintain happiness and independence in long-term relationships.

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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