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Aug 2025
54m 37s

How Long Does Rebound Relationships Last

Annalisa Bahadur
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This episode shares the time line in which the avoidant show interested in the rebound, starts to withdraws and goes back to their ex. The episode talks about why Avoidant Attached jumps into soon after a break up, what their intentions are when returning to and what you can do to prevent yourself from becoming rebound. I would love to hear your thoughts ... Show More
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