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Aug 9
41m 24s

4 Proven Ways to Turn Any 'No' Into a 'Y...

Violet Benson
About this episode

Think getting ahead is about luck? Think again. In this episode of Almost Adulting, I’m giving you my unfiltered playbook for turning every 'no' into a 'hell yes,' getting hired when you’re underqualified, nailing interviews, and beating the competition for the promotion you deserve.

Today you’ll learn how to:

• Get a YES (even when you’re not the obvious choice) through manipulation

• Turn rejection into opportunity

• Outshine everyone in an interview and get hired on the spot

• Position yourself for the next big promotion

• And walk away with strategies that will change how you move in business and in life, forever.


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