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Aug 4
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how to MASTER self-love while dating | d...

Tam Kaur
About this episode

mastering self-love while dating isn’t always easy — especially when no one talks about the detachment, boundaries, confidence, and self-worth it really takes. if you’ve ever felt like you start shrinking in relationships, this video is for you. i’m sharing the exact mindset shifts that helped me stay independent, grounded, and fully in my power while navigating love. after spending time single, focused on building my dream life and reconnecting with myself, i learned that the right relationship should expand your world — not consume it. whether you’re dating, in a relationship, or healing from one, this video will help you protect your peace, stop overgiving, and keep becoming her — the woman you were always meant to be. 💅🏽💖


♡  WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:

00:00 Introduction: The Importance of Self-Love and Independence

02:21 Chapter 1: The Talk

08:44 Chapter 2: The Lifestyle

15:43 Chapter 3: Homework

18:48 Final Thoughts



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