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Jul 29
53m 38s

Gen Z Could Never & Are You The 'Change'...

BRITTANY HOCKLEY AND LAURA BYRNE
About this episode

Hey Lifers!
There’s brain fog and general chaos today.
We’re so excited for Tanya Hennessy with her pregnancy news. You can listen to our previous episode with her here.

If you’re in the dating world, are you video calling your potential dates first? If you are, is it to see whether you have a bit of chemistry/compatibility or is it to check they’re ‘real’ and not a bot?

We’d love your horror dating stories in our DMs.

Gen Z would literally probably die if they were forced to go clubbing in 2010. We shared some of our nostalgic memories of our club era and we wouldn’t take our jacket piles and grinding men back for anything!

Original video from @Marysantoracomedy

What nostalgic memories do you have from your 2010 club era?

Is There an “Effort Mismatch” in Your Relationship?

Are you the ‘change’ partner or the ‘acceptance’ partner?

We unpack the work of Dr Alexandra Solomon around “Effort Mismatch”. Usually this is caused by one partner being the ‘change’ partner and the other being the ‘acceptance’ partner.

We break down what the qualities and behaviours of each of the partners are and chat about which we think we identify with.
Original video from @baya_voce

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