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Jan 2025
51m 15s

How Do I Stop Being Such A People Please...

Sony Music Entertainment / Jonathan Van Ness
About this episode
JVN sits down with Kati Morton, a licensed therapist and bestselling author, to dive deep into the world of people-pleasing. Together, they unpack why people-pleasing isn’t just about being nice—it’s about discomfort with other people’s discomfort, and why it leaves so many of us feeling invisible, drained, and resentful. Kati shares her expert tips on br ... Show More
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