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Feb 2025
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Ask Dem: Regret, Dating & Low-Maintenanc...

Demi
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In this episode of WYD Dem?, Demi takes a relaxed, unfiltered approach to answering listener questions. She explores the impulse to change your appearance, managing stress and regret, navigating situationships, and her thoughts on 50/50 relationships. Along the way, she shares her favorite books, travel stories, and insights on maintaining effortless friendships. With a mix of humor, honesty, and personal reflection, this episode offers a candid look at the highs and lows of young adulthood, making it a must-listen for anyone figuring out life in their twenties.

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