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Feb 2025
1h 15m

Boundaries 101 – “No” is a Complete Sent...

Demi
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In this hilariously unfiltered episode of Wyd Dem?, Dem and her bestie Sandra break down the delicate (but necessary) art of boundary-setting in dating, friendships, work, and even those oh-so-complicated family dynamics. Expect messy personal stories, laugh-out-loud moments, and the kind of real talk that’ll have you rethinking all those “sure, I can squeeze that in” texts. From dodging exes lurking on your Instagram stories to saying “no” without the guilt trip, this episode is all about reclaiming your time, energy, and peace of mind—because putting yourself first is never selfish. Tune in for the lore, the tips, and a little call-out energy for all the people pleasers out there.

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