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Sep 2024
17m 7s

(Matt Monday): What To Do When They Aren...

MATTHEW HUSSEY
About this episode
“Were we even on the same date?” I’ve heard this more times than I can count when people feel frustrated that their date didn’t ask them many questions . . . or in some cases, any questions at all.   In today’s episode, I respond to a viral tiktok on this topic and talk about how to tell the difference between someone who’s self-absorbed vs. someone who is just oblivious but really is interested in learning more about you. I also give you two sample scripts you can use when you want to bring up the issue in a high-value and low-pressure way.    ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com
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