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Jul 2025
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What the movies get right (and wrong) ab...

AMERICAN PSYCHOLOGICAL ASSOCIATION
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For many of us, movies offer our earliest lessons in love and help shape our expectations about what romance and relationships might look like. Relationship researchers Paul Eastwick, PhD, and Eli Finkel, PhD, are cohosts of the podcast “Love Factually,” where they use psychology to dissect their favorite rom coms. They talked to “Speaking of Psychology” abo ... Show More
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