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319 - Love Factually - Eli Finkel and Pa...

YOU ARE NOT SO SMART
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Two psychologists who study love, relationships, and human mating behavior pick apart the movie "The Notebook" and tell us what it gets right and what it gets wrong when it comes to portraying how humans actually, truly think, feel, and behave. 
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