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Nov 2024
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Episode 349: What Movies Get Right (And ...

DR. JUSTIN LEHMILLER
About this episode

Romantic comedies are one of the most popular film genres. But how accurate are rom-coms in the way they portray sex, love, and relationships? My guests today are the hosts of a new podcast that uses the science of relationships to separate fact from fiction in some of the biggest rom-coms of all time. We’re going to explore some of the things that Hollywood gets right and wrong in the way they depict relationships.

I am joined by Dr. Paul Eastwick and Dr. Eli Finkel. Dr. Eastwick is a Professor at the University of California, Davis, where he studies romantic attraction and close relationships. Dr. Finkel is a professor at Northwestern University and author of the bestselling book The All-Or-Nothing Marriage: How the Best Marriages Work, which we discussed back in Episode 45. Together, they co-host the Love Factually podcast.

Some of the specific questions we answer in this episode include:

  • In movies, partners often meet as strangers and fall in love. Is this how relationships typically start in real life?
  • Falling in love at first sight is a common theme in rom-coms. But what does the science say about this?
  • Opposites often attract on screen, but is that also true IRL?
  • What are some things films often get wrong about sex?
  • Is it necessarily a bad thing if rom coms aren’t always accurate?

You can check out the Love Factually podcast website to learn and listen more. 

Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology.

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