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Nov 2024
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Episode 349: What Movies Get Right (And ...

DR. JUSTIN LEHMILLER
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Romantic comedies are one of the most popular film genres. But how accurate are rom-coms in the way they portray sex, love, and relationships? My guests today are the hosts of a new podcast that uses the science of relationships to separate fact from fiction in some of the biggest rom-coms of all time. We’re going to explore some of the things that Hollywood ... Show More
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