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Feb 2025
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Depresculinity - Class 8, Lesson 6

Men’s Psychology - the science of being a man
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In this series, Dr. Paul will be addressing some of the challenges and downright traumas many men are facing, the impact on their minds and lives, and providing insights and potential solutions derived from his own proprietary approach developed over 30 years as a psychiatrist.

Dr Paul is an author with PenguinRandomHouse and Psychology Today and has been featured in numerous periodical magazines important to men and women both.

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The discussion focuses on managing workplace dynamics, particularly involving employees who may have personal issues affecting their work behavior. The speaker uses an analogy about accommodating individuals with disabilities to emphasize the importance of providing opportunities and support. For example, one should not exclude someone in a wheelchair from entering a building; similarly, employers should provide employees with the means to help themselves but must also be mindful of liabilities if the situation escalates—especially if an employee is intoxicated.

The speaker touches on the responsibilities that come with managerial roles, likening it to themes from mythology, suggesting that with position comes accountability. There is also a cultural reference to the film "Old Yeller," implying that difficult decisions may need to be made regarding employee behavior.

The speaker recounts a personal experience of directly addressing a colleague's behavior, asking for respect, and keeping personal issues away from the workplace. They express optimism about this approach but acknowledge the situation's seriousness, suggesting that intervention may be necessary if it doesn't change.

The session ends with a question to participants, seeking insights into dealing with issues of masculinity and depression, hinting at a broader conversation on mental health in relation to workplace dynamics.

Overall, the talk reflects on the balance between empathy, responsibility in leadership, and the complexities of navigating personal and professional boundaries.

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