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Oct 2024
14m 58s

Masculinity Vs. Manliness | FRIDAY FIELD...

Ryan Michler
About this episode

Join Ryan Michler as he explores the distinction between masculinity and manliness, a conversation that goes beyond mere semantics. Drawing insights from our social media followers, he discusses how masculinity often encompasses inherent traits like dominance and competitiveness, while manliness is about applying these traits through cultural, moral, and ethical lenses.

By sharing various perspectives and definitions, Ryan illustrates that masculinity is a birthright, but manliness must be earned through responsible and positive actions. This conversation encourages a broader discussion on how men can effectively cultivate these attributes to benefit themselves and others.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) - Episode Intro
(00:40) - Introduction to Masculinity vs. Manliness Discussion
(03:24) - Listener Quotes on Masculinity vs. Manliness
(04:27) - Defining Masculinity and Manliness
(05:28) - Masculinity as Biological Traits
(06:38) - Manliness as Earned Characteristics
(07:35) - Good Man vs. Good at Being a Man
(08:22) - The Importance of the Distinction
(09:38) - Masculinity as an Amoral Tool
(10:21) - Appropriate vs. Misuse of Aggression
(11:47) - Manliness: Applying Masculine Traits for Good
(13:14) - Final Thoughts on Masculinity vs. Manliness

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