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Aug 5
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Masculine Psychology - Class 4, Lesson 4

Men’s Psychology - the science of being a man
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Welcome to a series of audios that will introduce you to a simple model of men’s psychology that draws on some of the growing body of research on men.

There’s more than meets the eye with men, just as there is with women. Men are driven at the core by instincts the same as women—masculine instincts.

However, just like women, they have emotions of very similar types and style. The expression is different because emoting is in some part, governed by the instincts.

Finally, the intellect and mature executive functions are also just like those of women (we have identical IQ potential - and “EQ” potential.) Yet the masculine instincts also influence that, and our communication and behavior.

This synthesis of the old and new, the rigorous and the elegant, and most important of all, an attempt at “unification of the psychologies” is the aim of Masculine Psychology, as we start to discuss in this first video.

It’s Masculine Psychology (originally, MMP), which is available in videos delivered one day at a time, for the full 5+ hours of the course (available to paid subscribers only)…

Upgraded Members get full access to the full program and many others from Men’s Psychology right away without waiting for lesson-by-lesson:

SUMMARY:

The transcript discusses the theme of achieving significant life goals as part of a hero's journey, highlighting the preparation and purification required before attaining a transformative "boon," such as the elixir of life or immortality. The conversation shifts to personal experiences of achievement, specifically mentioning individuals who have reached notable milestones like graduating or attaining the rank of Eagle Scout—a prestigious honor in scouting.

One participant named Tim shares his journey to achieving Eagle Scout, emphasizing the rigorous training and time constraints involved, as well as the familial legacy behind his motivation. He notes that only a small percentage of scouts achieve this rank, making it a valued accomplishment, often compared to military honors like the Purple Heart.

The discussion also touches on the potential temptation to remain in the state of achievement and bliss after obtaining such a life goal, referencing those who, instead of returning to their ordinary lives to share their gained wisdom, may want to indulge in the newfound freedom and enjoyment without the responsibility it entails. This reflects the broader narrative of the hero's journey, where the return to share the boon can often be met with reluctance.



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