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Mar 2024
33m 1s

Existential Therapy and Mindfulness

Men’s Psychology - the science of being a man
About this episode

Summary

In this conversation, Dr. Paul and Jeremy Fox discuss existential therapy and its principles. They explore the concepts of freedom and responsibility, autonomy and choices, and the importance of initiation in therapy. They also discuss the role of mentors and the therapist as a fellow traveler. The conversation highlights the significance of being present and non-judgmental in therapy, as well as the importance of observing ego and mindfulness. Overall, the conversation emphasizes the core principles of therapy and the role they play in personal growth and development.

Takeaways

Existential therapy focuses on freedom, responsibility, and the exploration of meaning in life.

The therapist in existential therapy serves as a fellow traveler, guiding clients in their exploration of anxiety, isolation, and freedom.

Existential therapy emphasizes the importance of autonomy and choices, as well as the recognition of one's own power and responsibility.

Being present-minded and non-judgmental is a core principle in therapy, allowing for growth and self-reflection.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Existential Therapy

02:08 Freedom and Responsibility in Existential Therapy

04:02 Existential Therapy and Mentalization

05:27 Exploring Autonomy and Choices in Existential Therapy

08:09 Existential Therapy and the Hero's Journey

09:23 The Therapist as a Fellow Traveler in Existential Therapy

10:12 The Zeus and Odysseus Instincts in Existential Therapy

12:00 The Importance of Initiation in Existential Therapy

13:24 Self-Esteem and Well-Being in Existential Therapy

14:17 The Role of Mentors in Existential Therapy

16:15 The Present Moment and Observing Ego in Existential Therapy

23:57 Finding Meaning and Engaging with the World in Existential Therapy

25:31 The Core Principles of Therapy: Observing Ego and Mindfulness

30:24 The Importance of Being Present and Non-Judgmental in Therapy

31:03 The Joining Point of Present-Mindedness in Therapy



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