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Jul 2025
21m 51s

405: The Lie of "Too Late" and The Truth...

Transformational Teacher and National Best-Selling Author
About this episode

"Your soul doesn't run on human time. It runs on sacred time."

What if the pressure you feel to "hurry up" and have it all figured out… is based on a lie?

In this episode of Soul Talk, I dive into one of the most painful illusions we've been taught: the belief that we're behind in life.

Whether it's love, purpose, abundance, or healing, many of us are carrying a quiet grief. Grieving the timeline we thought we should be on. The milestones we expected to hit by now. The version of life our ego mapped out, but our soul never signed off on.

We compare ourselves to others. We ask, "Did I miss my moment?" "Am I too late?"
But here's the truth: You are not late. You are right on time.

In this episode, I get real about what it means to trust your soul's divine timeline, even when things feel delayed, quiet, or unclear. I unpack how societal pressure, ego, and unhealed wounds drive us to rush, to push, to force outcomes. But what if your delay is not denial… but divine preparation?

I share personal stories from my journey and powerful spiritual wisdom to help you stop measuring your worth by deadlines or outcomes, and start aligning with the rhythm of your soul, where peace lives, purpose flows, and real miracles unfold.

If you've ever felt stuck, anxious, or unworthy because your life doesn't "look" like it's supposed to, this is your reminder: You are becoming. You are preparing. And the timing of your life is sacred

Tune in and learn how to trust your path, reframe your waiting season, and finally release the pressure to be anywhere other than exactly where you are.

Timestamps:

  • (00:03:13) -Society's manufactured timelines and the myth of "being late"
  • (00:04:32) - Why your delay is not a punishment but a preparation
  • (00:06:24) - You cannot miss your destiny or screw up your divine timing
  • (00:07:15) - The difference between linear time and soul time
  • (00:08:26) - Surrender, patience, and divine trust
  • (00:09:26) - Divine delays as protection and preparation
  • (00:10:18) -  A personal story: why Kute wasn't ready for love in his 20s
  • (00:11:32) - Delay as divine grace and soul alignment
  • (00:12:49) - Stop comparing your journey, trust your own soul's curriculum
  • (00:13:35) - Delay forces surrender and identity growth
  • (00:15:15) - Reframing your waiting season as strengthening
  • (00:16:06) -  You're not forgotten, your delay is not denial
  • (00:17:18) -  Why it will all make sense in time
  • (00:18:11) - Don't settle for "it works", wait for what's right
  • (00:19:22) - Trust the unfolding; do not compromise

Some questions I ask:

  • Is it too late for me to manifest my dream?
  • How can I stay grounded during long periods of waiting?
  • What if I feel like I've missed my moment in life?
  • Why does everyone else seem to be ahead?
  • Can I trust the timing of my life even when nothing makes sense?

In this episode, you will learn about:

  • How to break free from the illusion that you're "running out of time" and start aligning with your soul's divine timing.
  • Why delay is not denial, but a sacred part of your soul's preparation for purpose, prosperity, and expansion.
  • The hidden spiritual reasons your dreams may not have manifested yet, and how to shift from frustration to faith and flow.
  • What secure, grounded love actually feels like so you can attract healthy, lasting relationships.
  • How to trust the unfolding of your journey and surrender control so you can receive abundance, love, clarity, and fulfillment in the right season.
  • The difference between ego timelines and soul alignment, and how to know which one you're living by.
  • Practical mindset shifts to help you stay grounded, patient, and purposeful while life prepares you for what you've prayed for.

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