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Jul 2
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Why Harm OCD Feels So Real (And What to ...

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Welcome to the latest episode of the "OCD and Anxiety Podcast" with Robert James, a compassionate coach who has faced these challenges himself. In this episode, Robert delves into the world of Harm OCD, exploring why intrusive thoughts feel so real and how they trick us by tapping into our deepest values and emotions.

Discover how OCD, rather than reflecting reality, hijacks your empathy and kindness, leading you into a cycle of doubt and fear. Robert discusses the importance of accepting these thoughts' presence without letting them define you, emphasizing the role of attention management and compassionate acceptance of underlying emotions.

Join Robert as he shares insights and strategies for changing your relationship with intrusive thoughts and focusing on what truly matters in life.

Disclaimer:

Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.

 

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