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Jul 2025
56m 36s

317. The psychology of OCD

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Have you ever heard someone say they are “so OCD” for simply having a tidy house? Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder is one of the most misunderstood mental health conditions, frequently reduced to stereotypes about neatness or organisation. But for those living with OCD, the reality is far more complex - and far more invisible. In today’s episode, we go beneath the surface to explore the lived experience of OCD: the hidden compulsions, the mental spirals, and the exhausting need for certainty. We unpack the psychology behind it, challenge common misconceptions, and explore what recovery and support can actually look like.

We explore:

  • The role of the OCD cycle
  • Why intrusive thoughts can feel so threatening
  • Types of OCD beyond cleanliness and order
  • Why compulsions don’t always look like rituals
  • How OCD thrives on shame, secrecy, and doubt
  • Approaches to treatment and the path toward healing

Whether you live with OCD, love someone who does, or just want to understand it more deeply, this episode is for you.

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Elizabeth Colbert was our researcher for this episode! Thank you Libby! 
 
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